From giving them treats they're not meant to have from letting them play video games they're now allowed to play ...
Kiwi aunties and uncles have opened up about the sneaky things they have let their nieces and nephews get away with that they wouldn't normally if they were at home.
Mike Puru even admitted he accidentally let his nephew play Fortnite only to find out later that it was on the no-no list.
Another Kiwi listener revealed they didn't realise the little one's had never had McDonald's... after a trip to the takeaway chain ... Oops!
We guess they're called cool aunties and uncles for a reason!
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