The internet is divided over whether it's OK to charge family to attend Christmas dinner

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Christmas day can be expensive, especially if you are hosting a lunch or dinner for your whole family.

But does that make it OK to charge those attending money to help cover costs?

That’s the exact situation a Mumsnet user has found herself in and her question has left everyone rather divided.

User Staceyjas asked if she was being unreasonable to think you shouldn't ask the family to pay for their Christmas lunch – explaining how her partner’s mother is planning to charge £17 (NZ$32) per head for the holiday meal.

"She said she doesn't want to do it all from scratch and wants to get it all pre-done so it's more money," Staceyjas wrote.

"I can see it from both sides and it's hard work and can be expensive but not like she is financially destitute."

Other Mumsnet users were quick to respond with differing opinions.

Some agreed with the idea of asking everyone to help cover the costs of a Christmas meal.

"It's really expensive to cater for Christmas dinner for a lot of people. Don't think of it as her charging you but instead think of it as you all contributing to the cost of the food," one person wrote.

"I think it’s fair, to be honest. Why should she have to cover the cost every year when it’s likely to be £100 (NZ$188) plus and why should she have to cover the cost of not wanting to do so much cooking?" another added.

One user wrote: "If someone asked me for cash I'd pay - it's really expensive hosting, particularly at an expensive time of the year. When we have had Christmas meals as a big group of friends, we split the cost."

However many others slammed the mother, saying it was wrong to ask for money for a Christmas meal.

"No! That is horrible," one wrote, "Cannot think of anything less hospitable than setting the menu and demanding your 'guests' pay for it."

"No," another added, "I would never ask people to pay to come to my house for dinner."

"If you can’t afford it, don’t invite people. Or only cook what you can afford. I’d never charge anyone, far less family, for dinner," another user wrote.

What are your thoughts?